Question for women, answer maturely please?

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Well, I just got dumped by my girlfriend of 1 year because she says I don't have anything to offer. I'm a volunteer firefighter, I work full time at a distribution center for pool and spa parts and chemicals. I'm in college working on getting a Paramedic Certification. Once I get that, It'll earn me a full time career anywhere I want as a firefighter/paramedic making ,000-,000 a year. I'm an outdoorsy guy, whos old fashioned in that I am very respectful of women. I hold doors, am a gentleman, and don't look at women as objects. Would you dump a guy in my position because you didn't want to wait less than a year for me to get a full time career? I really loved my ex, and this breakup is hard for me. Should I forget about her? She said to call her when I've got my stuff together.
Oh ya, I'm 21, 6 ft tall, half Armenian, half Irish. I've got a muscular/athletic build, with a tiny gut I'm working on. Brown hair, green eyes.



Comments

  1. fokker - it's an airplane! says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    That sucks man – do you really want a girl that can’t stick it out through tougher times? She is looking at the money you have to offer – rather than the qualities you have to offer. Unless you only look for finances in a relationship also – I think you are much better off. Good luck.

  2. Hitch hiker says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    lucky you, dodged a boring cow, no doubt

  3. cadh22 says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    well maybe she feels worried that you might not be going anywhere, but it seems like you are. i don’t think you should forget about her, if she said that you should call her when you get your act together than that obviously means she still likes you, unless she meant it in a mean way. i think you should try and explain to her how everything is going to be okay in about a year and that if she really loves you that it will be worth the wait

  4. Fauna says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    Just move on, let her go. That was her excuse for not being that into you anymore, that’s all.

  5. cajunmom says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    Sounds like she’s giving up a prize..I can’t begin to guess what her problem is, but yes, I would forget her and move on. Continue to work on your goals, and get back in the dating game. There is a better person waiting somewhere for a man with your attrributes. Good luck on all of your goals.

  6. suicidal susan says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    no i don’t think you should go back with her. just forget about her. i love my boyfriend very much and he is just finishing up college. even though we struggle financially i still love him and i support him completely. find someone else that’s going to stick with you through thick and thin. take care.

  7. demongirl350 says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    honestly no ithink u should forget abot her and move on u probably have more to offer then she does any ol day

  8. just a caring person!!! says:
    August 2, 2009 at 5:02 am

    I don’t believe it was your career she really meant, I think there might be a lot more going on then just money or job. Possibly it has to do emotionally or growth in a more spiritual depth. Could be your thoughts about having kids or how you see your self in the future. Obviously she doesn’t see you as a equal which is never good, and trying to live up to someone Else’s standers is a losing battle. On the other had it might not have to with any thing she said and it was just a easy break up answer instead of saying the truth. All in All I would say move on she doesn’t deserve you and you can find a better person that is your equal which is what you really want anyway. HOPE this helps

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