A woman where I work is upset with me and telling people that I played her. This is not the scenario. She’s a single mother, two kids. She’d been invited out with a group from work for a couple of months before she finally told someone that she didn’t have a baby sitter and couldn’t afford one. I sent her a note saying cut loose and if she bought the first drink, I would cover the babysitter and the rest of the evening. Everything was cool-I got my little sister to baby sit and it was a good time. It was apparent though that she was really self conscious about her acne. I liked her so I thought I would ask another woman friend of mine who works at a spa to give her a treat and she did. Inside a week this girl was hot. Make up-not the dollar store crap she’d been using and a few perfumes, nails, my girl told me it was trial stuff they give to customers free. I asked her out a couple of times and we had fun. We went on week end trip, she asked me to her kids promotion ceremony and I went-picnic afterward-everything. Then she finds out I’m still planning a trip with another friend of mine and she flips. She’s pissed now cause I met her kids and says I shouldn’t have done that, she says she’d been used, I misrepresented myself. Now the office is taking sides. My boss is shaking his head telling me it better blow over. I don’t think I had anything to do with this. Opinions?
I got the kid a DS for his promotion with a couple of games and so the other one wasn't jealous I got her something too-I was never bad to her kids.
Is it fair for my landlord/aunt to answer my questions?