I did something weird last night and now i feel strange and confused and stupid….?

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I went to my friends sweet 16th last night and we all (12 people) ended up in her 2 person spa at 11pm.



We were playing truth or dare and i was dared to make out with another girl. We did it.

I feel really strange and dirty now. i can't believe i did it.

And the worst part is that i didn't even drink any alcohol, i did this all while sober..

Any advice?

Comments

  1. HelpIzOnTWay says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    I wouldn’t feel wierd about it. We do a lot of things in our teenage years (experimenting) that we laugh about later. Just because you kissed a girl doesn’t mean you are gay or even bisexual. You were hanging out with a bunch of young people, having fun and doing silly things. I’ll bet you weren’t the only one who did something a little out of character last night, huh? Don’t let it get to you! If it bothers you that much, just be aware of it and don’t get caught up in a situation like that again. :)

  2. x1thsndtears says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    There’s really nothing to do about it except to move one. It’s the past. You regret because you didn’t think before you did something. It’s life. you do stupid things. but that’s the past. just don’t do it anymore in the future. people do stupider things than making out with same sex. so just move on and keep in mind not to do anything like that anymore. (:

  3. :.♥La Princesa♥.: says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    Wow….talk about the spur of the moment. There’s honestly no way to reverse time….pray for forgiveness and learn from your mistakes. It was an incredibly stupid thing to do, but you can’t dwell on the past.

  4. Nursing Student Ed says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    If thats the worst you’ve ever done, don’t feel bad.

  5. Lovemonkey says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    There’s nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality. It is very normal to have sensual experiences with people of the same sex at your age. Don’t feel dirty. It’s not like you had sex with all of them.

  6. Tessie says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    that’s it?
    oh girl, you’re a saint.
    let this be a lesson learned.
    don’t kiss girls anymore unless you really want to!
    and if someone tries to dare you to, tell them to shove it!
    cheers

  7. Kakariki says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    This question reminded me of the lyrics of Missy Higgins’ song, The Special Two, where it says "You make boundaries you’d never dream to cross, and if you happen to you wake completely lost". I know it feels weird when you do something that you would never normally do. Everyone does that at some time when they are young, and even not so young. In other words, it happens to everyone, so don’t feel alone.
    Just take it as a lesson learnt, and don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing in the future, whether you are playing truth or dare or not. You will be fine. Forgive yourself and move on. Do something to take your mind off it for now, and by the end of the day it will be feeling more like a distant memory.
    Best of luck.

  8. Brown eyed girl says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    let it go, girl!

  9. JD says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    I’m assuming you are a girl. If you are you aren’t the first to do this and it’s good that you feel guilty. It means you know it’s wrong. I’m a Christian mom with three kids and you would never, ever guess from knowing me but I did the same thing when I was younger. Only I was drunk and it went further than that. Words can’t describe how horrible I felt the next day. I have SO moved on now though and I chose to never do that again. Like someone else said, ask for forgiveness and move on.

  10. hyper anxious says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    tell a couple guys about it, they will assure you there is nothing to feel bad about.

  11. John N says:
    September 10, 2009 at 10:56 am

    Hey its just experimental ,,, dont let it scar you for life kid,,, everyone of both sexes usually plays around or experiments,,, so dont ride a guilt complex,,,, its ok

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