*I am physically disabled. I was paralyzed for two years, and I am in a lot of pain*
OK, I met someone online, on a dating site. They offered to take me on a road trip to the coast of Oregon. I told them that I had no money except . They told me this was no problem because they had just got their taxes back. I was VERY adamant about telling them that I had no cash to contribute. They insisted on taking me. I told them flat out in no uncertain terms that I could not contribute. I am repeating this part because it is important.
Their offer was this: I will come pick you up, take you to dinner, we will sleep, get up, and then go to the coast of Oregon.
I told her that I was down for a road trip but there was no way that I could go because I had no cash. She was very clear that she would pay for the trip. this was solidly established because I have no desire to take advantage of anyone.
She came and got me and we got Thai food. Then we went to her house.
We ended up having sex. I pushed myself physically while sleeping with her to the point of making myself physically ill. We had sex multiple times.
In the morning I woke up ridiculously sick. I told her that I needed to take a bath or I would be sick for the whole day. She explained that she understood this because her father was the same way. She lived in a trailer and the only form of hot bath was an inflatable hot tub that had to be prepared before use.
I told her I was grotesquely ill and that I needed to get into the hot water immediately. She was well aware that if I didn’t get in that I would be essentially crippled for the rest of the day. So, she proceeded to get up and cook breakfast for the next hour and just let me lie there in pain. Asa result I ended up almost physically incapacitated for the rest of the day.
We ate breakfast, and I asked her. "Are we going to go on the road trip?" She said, "We woke up too late." So, we never went, which was the only reason I went to begin with.
So, now I am stranded 50 miles from home, 3 miles from a store. I have no way to get to this store. I needed a cigarette. I asked her to take me to the store so I could get cigarettes. She didn’t. I was stuck. However, her father, who lived next door had just got several cartons in the mail. So, since I could not get out to get my own, I asked for ONE cigarette. ONE, that’s it. She treated me like I was the rudest human on Earth for asking this question.
So, I sat there ALL day stuck at this persons house, repeatedly sleeping with her whenever she wanted, as much as I was physically capable of. I eventually could even have sex with anymore because I couldn’t freaking move.
The evening came. I was hungry. I told her I was hungry. She did not offer me any food, and would not take me to the store. Then, she looked at me and said, "do you want some garlic toast?" I said, "yes"
I told her I was starving. She had cupboards full of food but had not offered me anything but some toast. I finally got up after feeling pushed around and grabbed the first food I could find: a bag of Doritos–which could have bought myself if she would have taken me to the store. I grabbed them and she said, "Aren’t you going to ask?" I said, "So, I don’t have to ask to cum on your face but I have to ask for some chips?" She said, "You can only have a couple." I felt like a prisoner.
Then she came in with the garlic toast. However, she had made a full dinner for herself. She sat and ate Potato soup, drank a "boutique" soda, right in front of me. She sat and ate fucking dinner in front of me, and I hade 3 pieces of burnt garlic toast.
Then, I was finally fed up and asked her to take me home. I gave to her physically almost beyond my capacity, she was pushy and controlling–she handed me a sleeve of movies to pick one and then after I looked through them she said "we are watching this," She refused to allow me to go to the store so I could buy my own food and cigarettes with my last , she ate fucking dinner inf front of me, screwed me on the road trip, and then had the nerve to treat me like I was a mooch.
I did everything I possibly could to take care of myself in this situation and she as well aware when she came and got me that I only had to my name. I just went home and never called her again.
End if story. Nope. Now several days later she is accusing me of taking advantage of her, and criticizing me for not giving her my last , and saying that it was rude to just take 15 Doritos and ONE cigarette.
I don’t want your opinion of my lifestyle but I want someone to read this and tell me how I took advantage of this person. I did EVERYTHING in my power to establish my financial situation and pay for my own requests beyond her offer. She completely refused to allow me to take care of myself and who I finally did stick up for myself I was selfish.
Somebody please stick up for me…
I realize now what my mistakes were. I’m trying to fix the situation by making better choices. The whole thing was just hurtful and sad, and I feel very cheap and stupid for allowing myself to get in this situation.
Tagged with: asa • dating site • desire • having sex • hot bath • hot tub • hot water • money • multiple times • quot • rest of the day • road trip • sleep • thai food • uncertain terms
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